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You've been Socked!

Paul Dwyer B.A CFP RRC • Oct 28, 2020

Professional Introductions Reimagined.  Differently?  Better! 

Anyone in the people business knows the value of a warm introduction, the gold standard of client confidence a.k.a. "Client Referral".  After nearly 15 years in practice I've learned from the best in terms of positioning and managing this precious resource of business development, in terms of expectations and social interactions.  They preach Professionalism!, but most clients say they experience authentic, sincere, enthusiastic, humorous, and heartfelt concern when they work with me.  They get professionalism at the bank, and its not impressive.  

Sending a package ahead of a first meeting to prepare the recipient for the pleasant experience including what I offer was a great way of warming and calming potentially awkward meetings.    The results improved, but I found that the some curiosity was necessary for prospects to overcome social awkwardness.   I innovated by sending parts of a puzzle or other incomplete gifts where, during the introduction, I would offer the complimentary components.  Again Improved results.  

Existing clients still had mild resistance to offer introductions because of the FEAR associated with being the middle-man.  Risk of being associated with a socially awkward interaction, or risk of not fulfilling expectations or risk of professional or non professional conduct.  Whatever, that risk was real for clients.  After considering this, I offered my clients anonymity - so that they would not be identified in my introduction process, should it lead to disappointment.  WOW... what a response..  It has been raining introductions since.   

So today an existing contact... or client... offers me a name with contact details, explains how they know this contact, why they think that the contact would want to know me, and vice versa.  Based on that I accept decline or defer that offer.  On acceptance, I connect with the contact and then send out a welcome package including:
  • Postcard with contact information, the Rules/assurances, and Instructions.   
  • A packet with a single sock and a pair of googly eyes 
  • An introduction, to be accepted, declined, or deferred.  
While the vast majority of contacts respond positively and meet within 30 days, responses do vary from no response, to rude misunderstandings.  I have found the response reveals so much about the character of the contact.  It's a very good indication of how the relationship will go.  I've also found that in many cases the client chooses this anonymous method for a reason, as they are aware of the abrasive prickly character of their colleagues.  

If you are lucky enough to receive notice of "Getting Socked", know that you are loved by your colleagues and you have an opportunity to change your financial planning experience for the better. Trust the process, or maybe just be open to an introduction.  You don't know what you don't know.  

Paul 

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